DIVORCE: Emergency Protocol

A Handbook for the First 90 Days After They Say “I Want Out”

Divorce: Emergency Protocol is a structural survival guide for the most disorienting phase of separation — the moment after one spouse says “I want out,” but before anything else has taken shape.

This isn’t therapy. It’s not a pep talk. It’s a calm, unflinching handbook designed to help you function clearly when the ground shifts beneath you.

Built for the person who didn’t initiate the breakup but is now responsible for stabilizing its aftermath, this book offers clear tools for navigating the volatile early stretch of divorce — legally, emotionally, and logistically.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Reclaim agency when you feel blindsided

  • Avoid costly legal and financial missteps

  • Prepare documentation and protect key records

  • Communicate with dignity instead of panic

  • Support your children while staying grounded

  • Design the first phase of your divorce with intention, not impulse

Whether you’re still sharing a home or reeling from a sudden declaration, this guide helps you lead with structure — not survival instinct.

Written by a conflict resolution professional trained in decision science and negotiation, Divorce: Emergency Protocol reframes divorce not as personal failure, but as a structural rupture requiring clarity, not chaos. You won’t find closure here. But you will find your footing.